Melissa C. Koh

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The Wait


Stop looking for your partner or the “right one” but just focus on goals and dreams, focus on rebuilding your life because the “right one” will eventually find their way to you. You should never settle. You should keep waiting for that person until the day that you know and feel deeply that THAT is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. That person will change you, and change your life for the better. Never put a timeline on yourself or give yourself a deadline because life is way too short to waste on the wrong one.

Wait for the one who would love your entire being; who would adore you. Wait for the person that will complete you and make you a better person; the person that will put aside his own insecurities, pride and everything else just to be with you at any time and in any circumstance. Wait for that person that will make you smile so much and laugh so hard that your stomach cramps up. Wait for the person that is slow to anger and quick to forgive. Wait for that person that will make you his biggest priority in the same way you would make him yours.

This is one thing about getting in or out of relationships that I always stuck by. I never had to look for love nor had to force anything out of someone for love. I always focused on myself and my life, on being true to who I am, and sticking by my own personal values and beliefs. One day, when you meet the right one, you’ll feel like the entire universe has aligned for you, that is when you know God has answered your prayers and that in His time, He has made all things beautiful.

Venue: The Yoga Co., Singapore
Photography: Multifolds Photography
Gown: “Swan Lake” by Paolo Sebastian from Truly Enamoured 
Makeup: Jyue Huey, The Make Up Room
Florals: Flower Story
Stylist: Med kärlek

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  1. Tay Hui Hui Cheryl
    20 Sep 2017 @ 3:00 pm

    Hello Mel!

    I love this post! Honestly, I have been so worried about not being able to find my true love especially when I feel like i’m getting really old and most of the people around me have already found theirs. But this made me feel so positive and motivated. Thank you!

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